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What is a homewrecker? It's someone who completely destroys someone else's family and home because they have never stopped to consider what is right. Is he married? Are you 100% positive? In a new relationship certain things can be overlooked such as, what college he went too, his mothers maiden name or even what his favorite color is but finding out whether he's married or not should be on the top of the "do not forget to ask" list. Surprise, surprise, you forgot to ask the burning question, he may have a wife and 3 kids at home wondering where he is. Actually they are probably at home getting on with their lives quite normally because he has told them that he has to go out of town for a business meeting, this is what cheats do. Ask yourself "is he married" and what would happen if you found out that he was? Unless you really have a burning desire to wreck his wife's life then you need to find out for sure. Look at it this way, if he is married and he eventually leaves his wife for you, how long will it be before he's looking for the next woman to leave you for? If he has cheated once, he will do it again. Women are dragged through the courts every day and named as the "other woman" in a divorce case, their defence is usually "I didn't know he was married", that's usually a very true statement but it doesn't make it any easier on them, having their name in the papers for a treachery which wasn't their fault. If you've ever met any of the women who have had their good name ruined they would probably say things like "what could I do about it" "it's not my fault" or "there was no way to know", although I sympathize with any woman who has had to go through the ordeal of dating a married guy, I still can help but wonder how stupid we can be at times. If someone asks you "is he married" and you can't say for certain that he's not, then you need to do something about it. I've been in this situation and I have been burned, he was married and I was the last to know. I did learn from my mistakes and you should learn from mine too. If he's cheating on you he is also cheating on his wife, but how do you know that there isn't a third person that he's also seeing, if he can get away with two timing why not three timing? I have written more about this matter and my own experiences, so come on over and have a look at my story and how you can avoid being caught in the middle - Is He Married Or Not. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Kelly_Taylor |